Hi Friends!
Today, I have some thoughts for you on walking through the dark (appropriate for Beyond the Night's release, don't you think??). But first, a quick update on the Beyond the Night contest:
Well, we've had several winners this week for the Beyond the Night contest, and the gift bags have been going out. But there's plenty left for you! So, get that copy of Beyond the Night and enter the fun contest -- solve the puzzle, tell your friends, post the trailer, or take a picture! I'm excited to see who's going to be participating and getting fun gift bags in the coming couple weeks.
And just for fun, here were the first winners of these three categories:
--Deanna Smith of Salinas, CA was the first to solve the puzzle!
--Beth Vogt of Colorado Springs, CO was the first to post the video trailer and submit the link!
--Anna Joujan of Chattanooga, TN was the first to tell 12 friends about Beyond the Night!
All right, so get those entries in, folks! And have a little fun!
Now, on to deeper topics. I was "talking" (for me that means emailing) with my friend and web designer, Kelli Standish, a couple weeks ago, and we were talking about walking through the dark times in life. And of course, I was thinking about Maddie's dark times in Beyond the Night (after all, she's going blind!) and what I learned by walking with her through the writing process.
And I came to discover that there are really three alternatives for walking through the dark. I believe that everyone has to face the darkness at times in their lives. But what we do in those times, our choices about how to respond make a huge difference in where we end up. So, here are a few quick thoughts on those three options:
1) There are those who deny the darkness, claim it doesn't exist, put on a happy face and believe that faith is just saying "God is good, all the time" as a way to run from the pain of dark times. They don't want to face doubts, to ask the hard questions, to allow their hearts to be broken by sorrow. Deep down, they fear their faith will be broken, too, if they allow any doubts or questions to surface. The only problem is that those who don't face the darkness, those who try to skirt around it, also skirt around God's efforts to help them grow deep with Him. They stick with their comfortable cliched faith, and that’s pretty much where they’ll stay.
2) There are those who God calls deeper, but in the face of the pain and darkness they turn away. They try to lessen the discomfort by turning to other things, distracting themselves to try to protect themselves … perfectly reasonable, except it results in a hardened heart, and they end up enduring the pain without gaining its rewards.
3) Then, there are those who God calls deeper, and they beat their fists bloody on His chest as they fight, struggle, doubt, hurt, wrestle, complain, cry out, accuse, rant, rave, rage, weep … these are the Jobs and Davids, the Habakkuks … they are the ones who say the wildest things, express their hearts with shocking honesty, they lay bare the wounds and face God will all the confusion, hurt, and doubt in their souls. But that’s the difference, they face Him. Always facing Him. And in time, they are changed forever. They glimpse the wonder, they put their hands over their mouths … they see God as they never could have before, and somehow they’re glad of it. And, when they say “God is good” it’s no longer a cliché, it’s a statement born out of the darkness, and it means something completely different than the same words spoken by those who have never come through that dark night. It’s a deep and profound thing. They have come through the darkness and discovered incredible light.
And that, I think, is the hope offered to all who walk in the dark. That’s why we keep fighting on even when we can't see … because there is no other way to get to that other side, there is no other way to come to that place where we’ll see Him as we never could have before.
So, for everyone who now finds themselves facing a time of darkness, hang on, hang in there, and keep facing Him through it all. There is light on the other side ... I promise, and so does He.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
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4 comments:
Thank you for those words. i am facing that darkness. the last two years were tough,this year they have intensified! seven deaths in the family this year. my husband and i both out of work. our married children going thru very trying times and heartbreak. why and when will it end?
"butterfly"
Butterfly,
Wow, it certainly does sound like you're facing a dark time. How hard!
There's this somewhat obscure quote in Isaiah 28:28 that says, "Grain must be ground to make bread; so one does not go on threshing it forever." There have been many times in my life that I've clung to this quote to remind myself that this "threshing," this hard/dark time, cannot and will not last forever. It has to come to an end sometime.
And in the meantime, may God give you strength to persevere through the darkness and find the light on the other side.
Blessings and peace,
Marlo
When does this contest end, just in case I wanted to add it to my blog? I just requested your book through FIRST Wild Card Tours to review for my blog: Loving Heart Mommy
I'm still processing your 3 ways through the darkness.
I'm wondering if there's actually a 4th; a point that someone reaches (that isn't the superficiality or fear of #1) after coming through the darkness often enough (maybe via #3) that they either get through that wrestling part really quickly, or perhaps after enough matches with the Lord, they don't deny the darkness (how can you, when dealing with the loss of a child or such?), but instead of fighting with him they reach for Him? Is it not possible to go deep with Him by following him step by treacherous step into the deep valleys and up the steep mountains on the other side? That doesn’t mean we always rush headlong, there might be hesitation or even pleading to be left on a plateau for a time; but the absence of a Jacob-style wrestling match shouldn’t mean we’ve achieved little more than “fire insurance.”
I'm thinking of people like Barbara Johnson who faced more dark circumstances than it seems fair for one person to endure, but didn't spend all of her energy railing against it. Or the writer of “It is Well with My Soul” who, when overwhelmed with circumstances that would cause most of us to curse God, could pen those words.
Is there a point of maturity that we can hope to reach where we skip the battling and can say "I don't understand it and I don't like it, but I trust you to walk me through it." I sure hope so! Because that is my aim. I don't know if I have the energy for a lifetime of battling God (since I already know who's going to win every time!), but I'd hate to think that my willingness to put my hand in his to help me along the rocky paths with cliffs on both sides means I'll only ever have a "cliched faith."
I'll be thinking on it...and maybe I’ll re-read Hinds Feet on High Places.
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